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is a lo-fi, text-based dating and social app for womxn, trans, genderqueer, two spirit, and non-binary people for meeting lovers and friends. Inspired by old school newspaper personal ads, (formerly known as Personals) lived on Instagram for years before evolving into an app. (you can still find us on Instagram

—short for lexicon—is the only social app where the text comes first and the selfies, second.

adheres to a zero tolerance policy towards creeps: no transphobia, no racism, no fatphobia, no ableism. No hate speech of any kind. We reserve the right to delete personals or missed connections for any reason. A healthy, loving community is our top priority.

Herstory of Lex

(formerly known as ) was inspired by the personal ads in On Our Backs, a women-run erotica magazine of the ’80s and ’90s. The personals were written by lesbians and detailed their desires and romantic requirements.


Is free to use?

Yes! It’s available free to download for Android and iOS users worldwide.

How old do I have to be to use ?


How can I report someone?

Click the flag icon at the bottom left of each personal or missed connection to report. You can add a reason or simply press “report.” The ad will be taken down immediately and the admin will then review. You can also report user profiles, click the flag icon at the top right of profile.

How do I connect my Instagram profile?

Connect your Instagram account in your profile, you can edit and update this link as needed.



app will evolve in response to what works best for our community. Please email any comments, ideas for features, questions, and concerns to

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A hearty thanks to Anita Osuala for assisting in all things Personals Instagram/Lex App and to Lisha Payne for tech support.

A special thanks to Andrew LeClair and Anna Feng for design and development.

And a super thanks to Rafal Zawadzki and Abhilasha Roy for their engineering and UX design work.

Photography by Christelle deCastro